Not every day is perfect, but…

15/09/2023 Nilson Lattari

Do you know that nice day when everything is all right, according to the script? But we always wonder that could it be better? Just a little bit more with a touch of perfection? And we scorn them and think that they are only mere exceptions.
We have this compulsion to imagine that everything can be better and this behaviour is a facet of our humanity. Not every day is perfect and if we find one, we imagine that it is only divine justice and we deserve it.
At the same time, there are bad and terrible days. Those days are not fine to us, and we become them in tragedies. And these endless days will be our companies for a long time, and they will pursue us like ghosts.
Ok. Not every day is perfect but there are perfect situations, and we can learn from them. There are lessons to teach us to tackle adversities and motivations in order to tackle bad days.
What would you learn with perfect days? Maybe they don’t belong to the real world. Maybe they are fiction, fairy tales like stories that we read on boring days. Perfect days are only moments to rest and opportunities to keep us out of the real world. Like islands that appear during a trip when we are sailing in the ocean. In the ocean sometimes there are storms or moments of tranquillity.
Then, perfect days don’t help us, they are rewards that we receive in our lives.
On bad days, we always can learn good things. They will be lessons to enjoy perfect days, and value them. They will be perfect because they will be oases to rest.
Not every day is good but there are good things in each of them. If we can experience good lessons from bad experiences, it is the best method to live and enjoy perfect days.
On bad days we learn about traps of fate and how we can prevent them. Life is finding the new within bad days. A perfect day for an inexperienced person is learning lessons without obstacles. A perfect day for an experienced person is the day to explore his abilities to deceive the obstacles of destiny. For an experienced person who lives a perfect day, it is the opportunity to make the same mistake only to prove to himself that he can control his destiny.
Bad days are obstacles to enjoying perfect days because we need to be fair with them.