The anticoach

09/02/2024 Nilson Lattari

Yes, it’s time to confront the truth, and the truth cannot be silenced. In life, not everything is a bed of roses and coaches cannot solve our problems. So, I imagine it is time to live without lies, and face reality.
Take it easy, if you cannot solve a problem that is disturbing you. If you are trying to realize a dream and it isn’t materialising, the answer is simple: breath deeply, be brave and give up because, in fact, your dream has a minimal possibility of coming true. And that is the point: go ahead and try another thing and let life run its course.
For instance, you can be the CEO of a big company, or you can be the owner of a small store on the corner to make your dreams come true. On the other hand, you can get married to a girl or boy who is very rich, if they are single. There are two possibilities: they can be beautiful people and your chance to marry them is low, or both aren’t attractive and it doesn’t have any candidates to compete with you. In this case, your way is open. Opportunities arise in moments of crisis. In this context, their moments of crisis.
Don’t worry because you won’t be a rich guy by working hard. No, it is not true. A lot of people work hard, earn money and become rich. A doctor, an engineer, a lawyer, a store owner, and many others. In this case, they have to be at the right time and the right place. This situation is rare. In conclusion, your chances of becoming a rich guy by working are closer to zero and remote. You have another strategy, that is stealing goods and becoming a prisoner. And you will prove that the theory is perfect because you were in the right place but at the wrong time! The universe, definitely, conspired against you.
Have you ever heard of an entrepreneur who became a millionaire by sending bottles of water on the street and made a fortune? And after this, does he continue earning money as a lecturer sharing his story with an audience about his performance? Well, think about this. Probably, it is very interesting because if you don’t eat and live on the streets only saving money, you will be a rich guy.
Probably, many people have tried this, and some of them died from starvation and cold. The one who survived is now earning money as a consultant to entrepreneurs who have enough money to hire people to sell bottles of water, and they don’t need to sleep on the streets.
Lectures about entrepreneurship are amazing, especially for people who are lecturers. In the end, many people watch shows on TV to have fun and why not enjoy watching people teach entrepreneurship to entrepreneurs? And, probably they have never mentioned a company where they had success, except for lectures about entrepreneurship that succeeded in their minds.
If you win the lottery or marry a rich person, or find money on the street, or steal and don’t become a prisoner, your chance of becoming rich is 100 percent. Otherwise, you have 100 percent chance that this situation won’t happen.
The best thing in your life is knowing that you won’t be a rich guy. This is real. Wealth and the possibility of becoming rich are possible]; it is not your imagination. If you go to a church and someone tells you if you give money to God and you will receive double, someone will be benefited. Of course, it won’t be you, and it won’t be God with whom you were negotiating. How the money is moving from A to B, and C, in this case, God has nothing to do with it. Someone is gaining money among these letters, and, it is probably not you.
Well, if you want to be an entrepreneur, that’s okay. And if you want to find someone to motivate your ego, that’s okay too. But if you attend a course about entrepreneurship and don’t find any success, you can become a lecturer on this subject and become a new coach for something that was always a failure. And if you have no idea why you didn’t achieve what you were aiming for, your chance is to hope to be at the right time and the right place.